I Need Your Help: Decoding Modern Dating 💔❤️
By Johnny Depth
After more than 1,000 first dates, countless conversations, and enough dating stories to fill several books, I’ve come to a surprising conclusion: I don’t have all the answers. In fact, the more I learn about modern dating, the more questions I seem to have.
Dating has changed. Relationships have changed. Marriage has changed. Technology has changed. And yet, human nature remains remarkably consistent.
📱Every week I hear stories that make me laugh, shake my head, or occasionally restore my faith in humanity. Ghosting. Love bombing. Situationships. Texting rules. Dating app fatigue. The rise of AI. The decline of face-to-face communication. The list goes on.
💡That’s why I need your help. Seriously. I’m asking you to become my eyes and ears. Tell me what’s really happening out there. Not what the experts say. Not what the dating coaches say. Not what social media says. Tell me what you’re actually experiencing.
🎯 If you’re single: What’s the biggest challenge you’re facing? What’s changed over the past five years?What advice would you give someone entering today’s dating world?
❤️ If you’re happily married or in a long-term relationship: How did you meet? What do younger people seem to be getting wrong? What’s the secret that nobody talks about anymore?
🤔 If you’re divorced: What lessons did you learn the hard way? What would you do differently? What warning signs should others watch for?
📬 Most importantly…What trend are you seeing that nobody is talking about? I have a feeling some of the most important insights aren’t coming from experts. They’re coming from people living it every day. Some of my best stories, observations, and future articles will likely come directly from your comments.
After all, while I’ve been on more than 1,000 first dates, there are millions of people out there collecting data every day. Together, we might just figure this thing out. Or at least get a few good stories out of it.
😉 So write me back. Leave a comment. Tell me what’s really going on. I read every one
I’ve been importer from Thailand and Philippines over 30 years . No comparison to USA if you like traditional lady . Now they call those overseas dating guys Passport club . Btw there’s no reason to marry unless you want children and benefit is only when u do taxes 😬
Thailand is the better most modern fun place to extended visit . The best of everything in world is there . Buddhist culture kind and polite , priceless smiles contented people .
Philippines a bit behind times but dating better as most Christian and speak English . Culture closer to west . Ladies admire older experienced men . In lasting relationships they expect u to help and fund their family but things so cheap there no big expense . My wife’s family did not have a refrigerator or microwave so I bought got them an AC unit.