By Johnny Depth
In this episode of Palm Beach Player, I break down the #1 mistake men make in modern dating: confusing attention for love. One smile, one laugh, one touch — and suddenly she’s your soulmate. But that’s not romance. That’s fantasy.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
👉 The difference between fantasy vs. reality on dates
👉 Why dopamine tricks your brain into “love at first sight”
👉 How to tell if it’s attraction — or just validation
👉 The real 3-date rule that keeps you from overcommitting
👉 Why building a full life makes dating easier (and less desperate)
Dating should be discovery, not devotion. Stop tripping over your shoelaces every Friday night — and start seeing women for who they really are.
📚 For the full playbook, check out my books:
➡️ 1000 First Dates: Portrait of a Palm Beach Player (Now in audiobook 🎧 too!)
➡️ The Complete Guide to Dating Apps: How to Swipe Smarter, Not Harder
✉️ Subscribe to the Palm Beach Player series here: [Substack link]
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